I would like to go back to the episode that Ken B. told us about how he was staring at a nude models breast after the art class had just ended and she didnt like it. I wanted to respond immediately, but I somehow couldnt find the words to express my story until now.
I cannot remember who this lady waswhether she was a fellow student, a co-worker, or just someone that I had metbut I remember that she and I were talking, when suddenly she became very angry and said, Hey! Im up here!
Personally, I think she must have seen the movie with Jamie Lee Curtis where she has the same kind of scene, so this woman was acting it out in the same manner. However, I honestly dont remember if it happened before or after that movie, and I cant even remember which movie it was, but I do remember that it was Jamie Lee Curtis because of what she said next: She said, Well, arent you going to ask me? The guy said, Ask you what? and she said, If theyre real! I remember that because I never thought of her as being big breasted enough to even wonder if they were real or fake. I dont think she is flat-chested eitherjust normal.
Personally, it doesnt matter to me whether a woman is flat chested, normal sized, or big. I just like breast in all shapes and sizes, and I really appreciate the eye-candy that I have been seeing here at Domai. This attraction for breast is such that even if a woman is flat-chested, all she needs to do to gain my love and attention is show me her breast, and then Im her puppy dog for life!
Back to this lady
I stood there dumbfounded and asked what she meant. Then she sternly said, I saw you looking! I said, Looking at what? Then she shot back, My breast! You were looking at my breast! If I was, then it was a moment that I hadnt realized it. She didnt seem to understand that it is physically impossible to stare at someones eyes for the entire time that you are talkingwithout looking away. There you go again! Youre staring at my breast again! I said, Oh, so I am! Well so what! Then she said back, You! You pervert! I said, Whats so perverted about a man looking at a womans breast? She said, Its not just looking! Its what you were thinking! and I said back, What? That you have beautiful breast? Then she said, There you go! You pervert! You were thinking that I have beautiful breast, and that you would like to get me in bed with you and do your thing, werent you! I said, No I wasnt! I would like to see you naked because Ill bet that under those clothes you are very beautiful, but I wasnt thinking that until nownow that you are accusing me of thinking things. You provoked me! Then she said, Now Ive heard everything! Get away from me, you pervert! I told her again, that the first time, I was just naturally looking downor away from her eyesjust like everyone else does and that I didnt even realize that I had actually looked at her breast until she made a big deal about itthat it was just a natural thing.
Then I said, Besides, the womans body is beautiful to us men and before I could finish, she snapped, Now I know youre full of it! and I continued, Why is Playboy Magazine so popular? I picked the wrong example because her reaction was, Because there are so many perverts like you around! Then I remembered famous artworks, and I mentioned them, and all their famous painters, and I asked her, Surely you dont think they were perverts for having painted the naked female body, do you? and she answered, Everyone of them! Perverts!
I am sorry, but I cannot ever agree with her, and every time I think of that conversation with her it makes me equally as upset at herand women like heras she was at me, because while she felt that I was violating her space, she was violating mine. She was calling me a pervert, just for having the same basic God-given instincts as any other man. There are perverts in the world, but I didnt do anything to warrant her calling me one. What I was doing was only natural.
I believe that it is natural to want to see the female naked, and I dont believe that they dont want to see men naked too. I believe that that is only just what I said abovethat it is a God-given basic instinct in all of us. That is what makes us attracted to each other. It is a natural thing, and it was supposed to be that way. There is a God, and that is the way he intended it. He made woman for the man, and he made them desire each other.
Although I dont remember her name, I often wonder about her. We were both about the same age then and I believe I was in my thirties then, so since I am now 53, that would be about 20-25 years ago. She didnt have anyone then, and it wasnt hard to imagine why, but I wonder if she ever saw the light or if she still is alone, thinking that all men are perverts, just for exhibiting their natural God-given desire to look. Is she alone? Is she lonesome? I hope not. I wish I could meet her again so I could show her this Domai website and let her read some of the articles where wemen and women alikehave been discussing the very thing that she thought was perverted.
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